John & Lauren Sponaugle
are adopting a child from United States of America
“Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation.” Psalms 68:5
If you don’t know us, welcome to a part of our story! We are (currently) located outside Birmingham, AL where the Marine Corps has told us to set up shop for the next few years. Our two dogs are currently enjoying the big backyard. While the pitter-patter of paws is plentiful in our house, we have been missing the blessing of having our own children. While, in the past 4.5 years of marriage, we have attempted to add the pitter-patter of little human feet to our halls; we have been wildly unsuccessful. While the desire to raise biological children gradually transformed into the desire to raise any children, we began looking into the many options available, from non-invasive fertility testing to adoption. Having received a clean bill of health and no explanation for not being pregnant, we have taken this as a sign from God to wade into adoption with open hearts. This is where you come in.
You may think to yourself, “Well you can support two dogs, adoption shouldn’t be that difficult…” Well, the fact is that though the number of children in the United States and across the world who need a loving home is immense, the average cost of domestic adoption is around $45,000. Not many young couples can meet that amount on their own, us included. This is why we are looking to family and friends to help us with our fundraising goal of $42,000. This is the estimate for legal fees, travel costs, agency fees, and the home study(s) for our particular situation.
Through Lifetime Adoptions, the agency we have partnered with, we will be connected with birth mothers, given legal and home study referrals, provided support and education throughout the process, and lifetime birth mother support even after the adoption is finalized. Their services will cost $24000. Home studies in Alabama cost upward of $3000 and must be renewed every year until the adoption is finalized, around $1500 for each renewal. Legal fees will be around $2000. Support for the birth mother, if feasible, will be around $5000. Finally, travel costs will vary depending on which state the birth occurs so we have those estimated at $8000.
- Agency Fee = Fully Paid!
- Home study Fee = Fully Paid!
- Paperwork = Done!
- Home study = Complete!
- Waiting to be matched!
We are excited to see the child God has planned for us. We hope that by inviting you into this process, you will see yourself as a part of the community we hope to build around our child as they grow up.
(P.S. donations through this website are tax deductible if that makes a difference for your support!)
Adoption Status
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Updates
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Update 1
Hurry up and wait!
January 1, 2025Our friends familiar with military life will recognize the phrase “hurry up and wait!” It is often used in situations where you have done the most you can do and are now waiting for the powers that be to approve you for the next step. This is where we find ourselves, anxiously waiting for our grant request to be approved and sent to our adoption agency, which will allow us to level up to the next step in this crazy journey. We have no words to describe how loved we feel, and are blown away by all y’all’s eagerness to see us become parents. We truly did not expect to be able to pay the agency fee until at least March, let alone have the entire $24,000 needed by the end of the year! Thank you just doesn’t seem adequate.
Our agency has graciously given us some recommendations for home studies while we wait, even though they only provide that once we have paid the fee and signed the contract with them. We have begun looking into said recommendations and have narrowed one down that lives in the greater Birmingham area. Unfortunately with the holidays, things like this tend to move a little slower as people are (understandably) spending time with their own family and are not so quick to reply to work inquiries (who is during this time of year?). We are excited at the possibility of having another Sponaugle to celebrate the holidays with, perhaps even by this year, but we are trying to be diligent in remembering that the One who has orchestrated this journey so far, will continue to do so in His timing for His purpose. What peace there is in that.
As we continue to wait for approval for the grant, we have been reading through the various resources given to us on adoption in preparation for the child God has chosen for us. We will begin to put together our profile, which includes everything about us the birth mother might wish to know, pictures, life stories, and hopes and dreams for our child, daily routines, and the moments in life that has made us who we are today. Our next financial payment will be for the home study, which will be around $2,000, and will hopefully begin in the next few months.
Again, thank you all for your love, prayers, and generosity. How grateful we are to have such a village to be a part of.
We love you all,
John and Lauren
Matching Donors
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Jesus Loves the Little Children matched $3,000
Donations 59
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Anonymous gave an undisclosed amountSo hopeful for you guys! Praying everything goes smoothly
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Shayleah Collins gave $50
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Hayson Family gave an undisclosed amountPraying the Lord will provide you with a beautiful child.
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Dane and Emily Corliss gave an undisclosed amountPraying for you guys and excited to see where this journey takes you! Much love from Colorado♥️
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Shailey and Jeremy Dao gave an undisclosed amountPraying for you guys on your journey to parenthood! We love you both!
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Grady and Kristin gave an undisclosed amountCan't wait to meet our new niece or nephew!