Danny & Aaron B.
are adopting a child from United States of America
Always… Forever… Dream Big…
We are Aaron and Danny Barnett-Foster. We met in September 2020 and got married in June 2022. We began exploring the adoption process shortly after we were married. Aaron has always wanted to have a child of his own and, although Danny has three wonderful biological children (Collin, 14; Reese, 12; and Evan, 7), he still has lots of love to give to a child. We will be overwhelmed with excitement and joy when our family is finally complete after a successful adoption.
Last summer we experienced a failed placement through the foster system, partly due to discrimination based on race and our sexual orientation. After those experiences we began exploring private domestic adoption. This process is slow, emotional, personal, and incredibly expensive. We believe the adoption will cost us up to $50,000 for our home study, matching services, birth mother’s expenses, legal fees, and travel. We are exploring options for grants and loans to help with the cost, but our hope is to raise at least 1/3 through our friends and family.
Our first goal is to raise $5,000 to complete our home study through Adoption & Beyond. We can’t move forward without your help. All donations, small or large, are appreciated.
Adoption Status
Adoption Agency
Updates
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Update 2
Still Holding Onto Hope
November 9, 2025It’s been a while since you’ve heard from us — we’ve taken some time to pause, reflect, and adjust our expectations as we continue on this journey.
Our dream of adopting a baby is still very much alive, but we’ve realized it may take a few more years before it becomes a reality. Even so, we remain hopeful and grateful for every bit of support we receive along the way.
If you’re able to contribute — even just $1 — it truly makes a difference. We’re endlessly thankful for the love, encouragement, and community surrounding us through this process.
We love you all and appreciate every part of the village helping us grow our family. 💛
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Update 1
Ready for our First Step
May 14, 2025We met with an adoption agency this evening and are ready to begin our journey by completing our home study. This process involves compiling documents, meeting with a social worker, home visits, background checks, etc. Will you help us complete this step by getting us to our initial goal of $5,000 to pay for the home study fees?
Donations 16
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Alicia gave $30Beer wishes on this journey.
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Maria Berra gave $50
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Helen Northcutt gave $50I love you and am sending you all the good vibes, happy thoughts, and love during this journey! ❤️
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John gave $20
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Rhea Irvin gave $100Your journey to adopt speaks volumes about the depth of your hearts. I hope others will be moved, as I am, to support this incredible step you're taking. Wishing you strength and an outpouring of support as you move forwad on your journey.
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Anonymous gave $100
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Kevin gave $100Excited for you both as you start this new chapter. Your future kiddo is basically getting two awesome Dads straight out of Hogwarts. Can’t wait to see which house they get selected in!
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Matthew Perea gave $20You better meet your goal! Good luck friend, you will be amazing
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Anonymous gave an undisclosed amount
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Michael Cole gave an undisclosed amount